- Kind and direct
- Goal focused
- Cross-cultural experience
About Valarie
She has worked in many settings over a long career, including extensive international work with expatriates and indigenous communities. That background informs her understanding of cross-cultural adjustment and complex life changes. Her experience also includes caregiver stress, aging and geriatric concerns, adoption and foster care, and issues around hospice and end-of-life counseling.
Valarie’s approach is warm and direct. She supports clients in making their own choices and also offers careful challenge when change is needed. In practice she mixes client-centered listening with techniques from cognitive behavioral and psychodynamic ideas, and she uses solution-focused strategies to set clear goals.
Sessions can include discussion of relationships, family of origin issues, codependency, and coping after disasters. She also works with people facing addictions, eating concerns, parenting strain, low self-esteem, and compassion fatigue. Valarie can include Christian-based counseling when requested and will respect each person’s background and preferences.
Her aim is practical: to help people move forward, reduce distress, and find clearer direction. People who want a kind but direct counselor who balances listening with goal-oriented work may find her approach useful.
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Experience
30+ years
Credentials
Washington
Languages
English
Therapeutic approaches and online care
Valarie uses client-centered methods that prioritize listening and understanding the person’s experience. This approach aims to create a respectful space where goals come from the client and sessions focus on what matters most to them.She also draws on cognitive behavioral therapy, which looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions are connected and helps people learn practical skills to manage anxiety, depression, and stress. Solution-focused techniques are used to set concrete goals and notice small, useful changes quickly.
Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to decide which methods best match their needs, goals, and preferences, and will adjust the plan over time as progress is made.
Session formats are not specified here, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example, shorter check-ins can fit during a lunch break, phone sessions can use less bandwidth, and remote meetings can avoid travel time. Many people find these practical benefits help them use therapy more consistently.
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does she help people with?
She works with stress, anxiety, grief, depression, trauma, coping with life changes, addictions, relationship and parenting issues, and compassion fatigue among other concerns.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is generally kind but direct. She listens with empathy and also offers challenge to help people make meaningful changes.
What is her clinical background?
She has about 30 years of experience counseling in a range of settings, including substantial international work with expatriates and indigenous communities.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She holds a LICSW, Washington LICSW, and practices from Washington state.
In which language are sessions offered?
Sessions are offered in English.
Does she work with international clients?
She is not currently accepting international clients.
How does cost and scheduling work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What should I do to begin working together?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.