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Shirley Ikenze

Therapist · California

Shirley Ikenze

LCSW

Compassionate social worker guiding life transitions

  • 26 years' experience
  • Based in California
  • Sessions online
  • Speaks English
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  • Grief and loss
  • Trauma recovery
  • Goal focused

About Shirley

Shirley Ikenze is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in California with over two decades of practice. She centers sessions on the client's story and strengths. Her style is supportive and straightforward, aimed at helping people manage grief, trauma, anxiety, and major life changes.

Shirley uses listening and gentle guidance to help people sort through difficult feelings. She encourages people to name what matters and to build practical steps forward. Sessions often focus on improving sleep, managing stress, and addressing parenting or career concerns.

Her approach draws on client-centered work and narrative ideas, so clients set the pace and meaning of their progress. Mindfulness practices are introduced when helpful to reduce anxiety and stay present. Solution-focused strategies are used to set short-term goals and track small wins.

Shirley has long experience supporting people through grief and end-of-life concerns, including hospice and end-of-life counseling. She also addresses issues that arise from family and caregiving stress, cancer, adoption and foster care, and aging concerns. Her background includes many years helping people navigate change and loss.

She welcomes conversations about faith as it relates to healing while keeping sessions focused on the person's needs. Shirley works in California and conducts sessions in English. To begin, users follow the platform's Start Therapy flow and complete a brief matching questionnaire to schedule with her.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

26+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How Shirley's Approaches Work Online

Client-centered therapy focuses on the client's experience and perspective. The therapist listens closely and follows the client's lead to help clarify goals and build confidence. This approach works well for people facing grief, role changes, and ongoing stress.

Mindfulness therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce anxiety and increase emotional stability. It helps people notice moment-to-moment reactions, calm intense feelings, and sleep better. Solution-focused therapy zeroes in on small, concrete steps that move a person toward their goals and is useful when immediate problems need practical answers.

Finding the right method is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss what feels most helpful and may blend approaches based on your needs, goals, and preferences. That collaborative process helps shape a plan that fits real life.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, shorten commutes, and allow check-ins from different locations. It also makes it simpler to continue care during medical or caregiving demands related to aging, cancer, or hospice situations.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shirley commonly address?

She helps with grief and loss, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, and coping with life changes. Other focuses include caregiving stress, hospice and end-of-life counseling, and family-related challenges.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is client-centered and collaborative, with straightforward guidance. She mixes mindfulness and solution-focused strategies to set goals and manage symptoms.

What is her background and experience?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 26 years of experience working in California. Much of her work has involved grief, trauma, stress, and major life transitions.

What credentials and where is she licensed?

She holds the LCSW credential and is licensed in California. Sessions are offered from her California practice.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Does she work with clients outside the United States?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability listed on the platform.

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