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Bethany Kobus

Therapist · New York

Bethany Kobus

LMHC

Compassionate counselor for life transitions

  • 5 years' experience
  • Based in New York
  • Sessions online
  • Speaks English
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  • Experienced LMHC
  • Focus on grief
  • Practical coping skills

About Bethany

Bethany Kobus is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) practicing in New York. She brings five years of clinical counseling experience and a prior decade working as a social worker. Bethany aims to help adults navigate stress, anxiety, grief, trauma, and other life changes with steady support and practical tools.

She creates a calm, nonjudgmental space for people to talk through what feels overwhelming. Sessions focus on building self-compassion, clearer communication, and ways to manage intense emotions like shame, guilt, and anger. Bethany often helps clients facing parenting strain, caregiver stress, chronic illness concerns, and relationship challenges.

Bethany draws on several approaches to tailor sessions to each person. She uses cognitive behavioral techniques to notice unhelpful thinking and ACT ideas to clarify values and next steps. Attachment-based work and client-centered methods shape how she helps people repair connection and feel heard.

Her background includes a bachelor of social work from SUNY Plattsburgh and a master’s degree from Medaille College. Those years in social work and outpatient clinics inform a practical, down-to-earth style. Bethany works with young adults and people from diverse cultural backgrounds.

People who seek her help often want both emotional support and concrete strategies. Conversations can include skills practice, gentle exploration of past wounds, and planning small, doable changes. For hospice or end-of-life counseling needs, she can provide supportive conversation and coping strategies.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Domestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

Approaches used and how online work can fit your life

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on identifying personal values and taking small, meaningful steps that align with those values. It helps when someone feels stuck or uncertain about what matters most. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the connections between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns. It is often used for anxiety, depression, and stress management. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how past relationships affect present connections and aims to improve emotional safety and communication in close relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of therapy. The therapist works collaboratively to see which methods fit a person's needs, goals, and preferences. That process can include trying a few techniques and adjusting the plan based on what helps most.

The original profile does not list specific online session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online work helpful because it can make scheduling easier, cut down travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also let someone continue support when life changes make in-person visits difficult. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT, CBT, and attachment-based techniques to conversation-based sessions and at-home practice assignments to help you build coping skills and navigate grief or other challenges.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, ADHD, parenting and relationship issues. Additional focuses include caregiver stress, chronic illness, abandonment and forgiveness related concerns.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is calm and nonjudgmental with a focus on practical tools. Sessions mix talking, skills practice, and planning small steps forward.

What is her professional background?

She has five years of clinical counseling experience and ten years as a social worker in outpatient settings. Her work has included children, adolescents, and adults.

Which credential and location are listed?

She is a licensed mental health counselor, LMHC, practicing in New York.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original profile does not specify session formats; please confirm the current session options before booking.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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